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February 07, 2023
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Sara Miller Llana
Americas Bureau Chief

My story in today’s Daily is the hardest I’ve ever written.

To report it, I needed to talk to people who lost family in a tragic bus crash in Canada that killed 16 members of the Humboldt Broncos hockey team in 2018. And I needed to ask them how they felt about the possibility of forgiveness for the driver who was responsible.

As a reporter for The Christian Science Monitor, where one of our driving missions is to shine light, I’m used to finding sources who are eager to tell me their stories. But this one raised particularly difficult questions. I got far more rejections than invitations to talk. Some of the responses were full of anger – directed squarely at me and this newspaper.

At times I was deeply hesitant to continue. Were we, a newspaper founded on the promise to “injure no man,” in fact doing just that?

Many consider “the media” to be arrogant and self-serving. But most of the journalists I know are full of self-doubt. We feel a deep responsibility when writing about someone’s life, and it’s a terrible feeling to get it wrong. In my early career, as a foreign correspondent in Mexico in a job I loved, that burden felt so heavy at times that I considered leaving.

Years later, this story had me once again questioning everything I was doing. I sat for days trying, and failing, to write the first sentence.

And then the words of Christina Haugan came to mind.

Her husband, the team’s widely adored head coach, had been killed in the crash. We had spoken about whether it was hard for her to talk about her journey of forgiveness, knowing it hurts other families who don’t feel the same way. She, like every person in this piece, was adamant that her journey is not the only one – or that she is somehow better because she has forgiven.

But, she said, if she can help just one person – anyone, anywhere in the world, who is grappling with unthinkable grief – it’s worth it to speak out. And it was with those words that I found the courage to share her story.


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Today’s stories

And why we wrote them

As the president gears up for an expected reelection bid, he can tout accomplishments from low unemployment to new infrastructure projects. But 4 in 10 Americans say they’re worse off than two years ago.

Turkey and Syria’s earthquake triggers a global outpouring

In a time of great need, even countries that have chilly relationships with Turkey and Syria have stepped up to help. Here’s a snapshot of how the world has responded. 

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United States Geological Survey, Associated Press

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Russia’s ability to endure sanctions relies on the reluctance of countries like India to join the West’s economic embargo. The trade channels being formed could have lasting geopolitical effects.

A deeper look

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Banner tributes to each victim of a bus crash, killing 16 members of the team, hang above the Broncos’ home rink at Elgar Petersen Arena in Humboldt, Saskatchewan. The driver who caused the crash went to prison. Should he be deported, too?

Where does punishment end and healing begin? In the wake of a tragic bus crash, Canada grapples with accountability, justice, and mercy for a remorseful driver.

Essay

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A fourth grader at a Los Angeles charter school practices cursive in 1998. Cursive writing in Europe evolved when medieval scribes observed a form of Arabic writing in which the letters flowed together. It was faster, as one did not have to lift or dip a quill so often.

Sometimes the beauty of a thing is obscured by the fact that one is obliged to learn it. It’s a joy to see a child embrace a skill that used to be required – cursive handwriting – just because they like it and it’s “weird.”


The Monitor's View

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Women watch emergency teams search for survivors in a destroyed building in Gaziantep, Turkey, Feb. 7.

Within hours after the devastating earthquakes in southern Turkey and northern Syria early Monday, more than 60 nations pledged support. That compassion even reached across enemy lines. Israel has said it would send aid to Syria. Russians and Ukrainians living in Turkey are working together to assist Turkey’s most damaged cities.

The swift international response offers a counterpoint to fears that the world is increasingly divided by conflict and competition. Yet at the earthquake’s epicenter, the Turkish city of Gaziantep, another lesson is on display, one that shows humanity need not be bound by ethnic or sectarian identities.

More than 10,000 years old, Gaziantep is a thriving industrial city of Kurds, Syrians, and Turks – communities that have faced constant division and conflict elsewhere in the region. Over the past decade, the city welcomed half a million Syrians displaced by a civil war. Residents and city officials made a conscious decision to see the migrants as a resource rather than a burden – and as a catalyst for improving services like water, health care, housing, and education for everyone.

That social cohesion is now at work in Gaziantep’s rescue and recovery from the earthquake. The city’s mosques and many civic venues have been opened to everyone. “Municipal workers have been distributing water, bread and warm rice,” writes CNN reporter Eyad Kourdi from the city. Or as the city’s mayor, Fatma Şahin, told the World Urban Forum last June, “We are the guardian of all our residents,” with a special obligation to migrants.

Urban experts have taken note. “Gaziantep addressed an important question: Do refugees cause social, political, and economic destabilization?” wrote Önder Yalçın, the city’s former director of migration, in an essay for the German Marshall Fund. The city concluded that destabilization was the result of poor leadership rather than refugees. That insight led to a strategy to emphasize social justice and human rights.

“We are aiming for social cohesion, because Turkish and Syrian people are going to live together here, and if you only help Syrians, there is going to be tension,” Mr. Yalçın told The Guardian in 2019. “We said: ‘When you help Syrians in the same neighborhoods where Turkish people have the same needs, you have to help them, too.’”

That approach leads to shared uplift. “If inclusion is managed effectively and at all levels of a community, it can create a lot of wealth,” notes Roi Chiti, the coordinator for the Inclusive Cities, Communities of Solidarity project, in a Center for Global Development blog post.

In a region already torn by several conflicts, the earthquakes have compounded existing humanitarian crises. Yet as the recovery and reconstruction begins, leaders in the devastated areas can look to Gaziantep. The mayor, Ms. Şahin, was recently ranked the third-most successful mayor in Turkey in a survey. Cinder blocks may crumble. But a community’s compassion, empathy, and inclusion are less easily shaken.


A Christian Science Perspective

About this feature

Each weekday, the Monitor includes one clearly labeled religious article offering spiritual insight on contemporary issues, including the news. The publication – in its various forms – is produced for anyone who cares about the progress of the human endeavor around the world and seeks news reported with compassion, intelligence, and an essentially constructive lens. For many, that caring has religious roots. For many, it does not. The Monitor has always embraced both audiences. The Monitor is owned by a church – The First Church of Christ, Scientist, in Boston – whose founder was concerned with both the state of the world and the quality of available news.

We’re all divinely empowered to discern the spiritual facts that bring about healing – as a man experienced firsthand after an alarming breathing difficulty arose.


A message of love

U.S. Air Force/Reuters
Troops load equipment and supplies for the Urban Search and Rescue team from Fairfax, Virginia, and USAID onto a transport plane at Dover Air Force Base headed for Turkey. Two massive earthquakes on Feb. 6 have killed at least 7,100 people in Turkey and Syria. They also destroyed countless buildings, leaving many people without a place to stay and rendering the speedy delivery of aid even more critical amid freezing temperatures.
( The illustrations in today’s Monitor Daily are by Karen Norris. )

A look ahead

Thank you for joining us today. Please come back tomorrow when we talk to women whose lives have been turned upside down by Taliban decrees.

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