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February 15, 2022
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Yvonne Zipp
Features Editor

Republican Sen. Josh Hawley and former presidential candidate Andrew Yang hail from very different poles of the political spectrum.

But they agree on one thing: “The boys are not all right.” 

Today’s data is stark: There seems to be a real need to help men feel a sense of community and purpose. So, how does America break free from a zero-sum political cycle? Is there a way for men to win without women having to lose hard-won rights?

Take a look at a few points from our story the other day, the first of two by Harry Bruinius looking at masculinity in crisis.

• White men accounted for 70% of suicides in the U.S. in 2019.

• Just 40% of college students are men.

• Single and divorced men are most likely to die of opioid overdoses, and the number of men who died of alcohol- and drug-related causes spiked 35% between 2019 and 2020.

In Part 2 today, Harry delves into recurring political narratives around masculinity. He found that increased rights for women in the United States aroused deep concern that men were suffering as a result – in everything from physicality to fulfilling traditional provider roles. But interestingly, those definitions have evolved over time. In an earlier era, factory jobs and middle management were painted as too soft for “real men.” Now, politicians decry the loss of those very jobs as hurting men’s prospects and standing in society.

When society is in flux, the tensions can be particularly acute. 

“European Judeo-Christian culture is so patriarchal in its DNA,” says Harry. We’re a few decades into changes to a centuries-old system. “When that mental space is disrupted, it cuts deep.”

“I was thinking a lot about warrior culture and some of the hazings I endured in high school,” Harry says. The message, even through graduate school, was, “You’ve got to be tough; you’ve got to be able to handle this stuff.”

He points to men in Part 1 like weightlifter and author Ryan Castillo and Mac Scotty McGregor, founder of Positive Masculinity, who are looking for ways to help men feel a sense of freedom and expansion to be who they are. Harry sees the college students he teaches in New York seeking to break free from the concept of gender entirely to embrace what they see as a more authentic identity.

“It’s a complicated, nuanced issue,” says Harry. 


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Today’s stories

And why we wrote them

The West has promised harsh sanctions against Russia should it invade Ukraine. But Russians have borne sanctions since 2014, and seem ready, mentally and economically, to do so again.

A deeper look

“Crisis” rhetoric along with ideas of masculine toughness has recurred throughout American history. Some thinkers are looking beyond political point-scoring to how to address underlying social strains. Part 1: The men who find “toxic masculinity,” well, toxic.

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East Side Elementary School first graders (left to right) Hudson, Lane, and Keigan work on their reading skills with a tutor on Jan. 12, 2022, in Elizabethton, Tennessee.

How should schools mitigate the pandemic’s effect on learning? Tennessee is among the first states to launch a tutoring program – with promising results.

Q&A

Statistics can reveal only so much. By handing street children in Lusaka, Zambia, the means of telling their own story, two researchers allowed a fuller picture of their lives – and their humanity – to emerge.

Film

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Actor Audrey Hepburn is photographed in New York City in 1951 for Esquire magazine, in “The Automat.” The Horn & Hardart chain of retail stores and eateries, featuring self-service vending machines, fed an estimated 800,000 people a day at its height in the 1950s.

When a favorite eatery closes, what is lost? What is remembered? The documentary “The Automat,” about the Horn & Hardart chain, is an ode to a bygone restaurant and the community it created.


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Israeli Prime Minister Naftali Bennett speaks to Bahraini youth during his visit to Manama, Bahrain, Feb.15.

One driver of war and unrest in the Middle East is unhappy youth, especially jobless ones. The average age of the 9/11 hijackers was 26. The 2011 Arab Spring was sparked by a protesting 26-year-old fruit vendor in Tunisia. Last year, a survey of Arab youth found 1 in 5 are considering emigration. Monarchs, dictators, and ruling clerics must plot their moves around this demographic powder keg.

In the tiny Gulf nation of Bahrain, nearly a third of those between the ages of 18 and 24 want to relocate. This youthful unease explains why the country’s ruling royal family has been eager to provide more security and prosperity. It also explains why the leader of Israel, during a historic red-carpet visit to Bahrain Feb. 15, was allowed to speak to a group of young people.

Prime Minister Naftali Bennett told the group that the “growing friendship” between Israel and four Arab countries since the signing of the 2020 Abraham Accords is now “a leading force” for profound change in the region. For Bahrain in particular, part of that change will be an expected influx of Israeli tourists, investments, and advanced technologies.

Mr. Bennett’s visit follows one he made in December to another Gulf state, the United Arab Emirates. Israel has also begun to draw closer to Morocco and Sudan, two other signers of the Abraham Accords. But it may be his visit to Bahrain that carries the most significance. That country is closely allied with Saudi Arabia, which has not officially recognized Israel.

For the visit, Mr. Bennett’s plane was allowed to fly through Saudi airspace, a symbolic hint that the kingdom may soon set up diplomatic ties with Israel. Saudi Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman is eager to lift up the country’s restless youth. Like the UAE and Bahrain, he knows Israel’s economic prowess would help.

One of the great rivalries in the Middle East is a race between Iran and Saudi Arabia to develop their economies for that large cohort of unhappy youth. So far Saudi Arabia is ahead. If it also joins other Arab states in recognizing Israel, the “growing friendship” in the region may help cut down on all that unhappiness.


A Christian Science Perspective

About this feature

Each weekday, the Monitor includes one clearly labeled religious article offering spiritual insight on contemporary issues, including the news. The publication – in its various forms – is produced for anyone who cares about the progress of the human endeavor around the world and seeks news reported with compassion, intelligence, and an essentially constructive lens. For many, that caring has religious roots. For many, it does not. The Monitor has always embraced both audiences. The Monitor is owned by a church – The First Church of Christ, Scientist, in Boston – whose founder was concerned with both the state of the world and the quality of available news.

What does it mean to be a real man? It starts with our relation to God, our divine Father and Mother – as a young man experienced after a lifestyle fueled by stereotypical notions of manhood left him feeling hollow inside.


A message of love

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Ilia Burov of the Russian Olympic Committee trains in Men’s Aerials, Freestyle Skiing, at Genting Snow Park in Zhangjiakou at the 2022 Beijing Olympics on Feb. 15, 2022.
( The illustrations in today’s Monitor Daily are by Jacob Turcotte and Karen Norris. )

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