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TODAY’S INTRO

The real mile markers on the journey to adulthood

Noelle Swan
Weekly Editor

What does it mean to come of age amid the global upheaval of a pandemic? Today’s Daily is devoted entirely to that question, as we unpack “21 in ’21,” a special global report exploring what being 21 looks like for a dozen young adults around the world. 

It is an ambitious project involving 11 photographers, 12 subjects, and 13 reporters. I encourage you to take some time delving into the various components in this issue and in the Monitor Weekly.

When the team began reporting this project nearly five months ago, they sought to explore how the pandemic was affecting a generation perched on the precipice of adulthood. Would this year of loss disrupt the maturation process? Would it change who these young adults become?

Indeed, the team found stories of dreams deferred. But beneath the boredom and frustration, fear and loss, they found shoots of growth. 

Jaafar Al Ogaili, a new American citizen who came to the United States as an Iraqi refugee, learned that it is OK to cry after witnessing the gratitude of a friend he had delivered groceries to during quarantine. Jimena Pérez Sánchez of Mexico City learned to cope with grown-up proportions of guilt and fear when both she and her mother were diagnosed with COVID-19. 

This likely isn’t the kind of blossoming that Jaafar and Jimena had hoped their 21st year would bring. But such points of emotional growth are the real mile markers, more than any rite of passage.

Societies hang a lot on this period of life. The numerical age varies across cultures, but there is often a sense that a specific age signifies the completed metamorphosis. In reality, none of us ever really stop growing up. I find that comforting because it means there is always something to strive and hope for.

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21 in ’21

Coming of age in a pandemic

A young generation stalled but ready to launch: A special global report

Wars, economic depression, natural disasters, and a pandemic can define a generation. But when our reporters got to know a dozen 21-year-olds, they found a generation determined to set its own path. Here’s a brief introduction to our project.

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“World events like wars and recessions and pandemics and racial unrest can be especially formative,” says Meg Jay, a psychologist and author of “The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter – and How to Make the Most of Them Now.” “Because our 20s are [often] when we have our first jobs and first relationships and first moves and first real-world experiences, these big events become important parts of our life stories. They become woven into who we are.” 

In 2020, it was a pandemic. 

For the last three months of 2020, the Monitor followed twelve 21-year-olds from around the world. We wanted to understand how this global health crisis is encoding itself in the cultural DNA of a generation coming of age in its shadow. The full project features six of these young people in-depth, and all 12 speak for themselves in essays of their own. 

From Jordan to Mexico, India to France, many felt torn between the reckless optimism of being young, healthy, and alive and the rigid caution demanded by a deadly virus. A few got sick themselves, and stood by helplessly as others more vulnerable around them did too. Some lost jobs; others were forced to study remotely on poor Wi-Fi. And all echoed the hope of one 21-year-old in our project who gave birth to a daughter Jan. 16 and said, “This year is going to be different.”

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What defines a generation? 

Often, experts say, members of a generation are defined by the events that shaped their lives as young adults.

“World events like wars and recessions and pandemics and racial unrest can be especially formative,” says Meg Jay, a psychologist and author of “The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter – and How to Make the Most of Them Now.” “Because our 20s are [often] when we have our first jobs and first relationships and first moves and first real-world experiences, these big events become important parts of our life stories. They become woven into who we are.” 

In 2020, it was a pandemic. 

For the last three months of 2020, the Monitor followed twelve 21-year-olds from around the world. We wanted to understand how this global health crisis is encoding itself in the cultural DNA of a generation coming of age in its shadow. The full project features six of these young people in-depth and all 12 speak for themselves in essays of their own. 

Their lives and circumstances as they rolled into 2021 varied wildly, from a Sudanese refugee training to be a beautician in Jordan to a student preparing to be a labor organizer in Germany to a blind Iraqi refugee studying criminal psychology in Boston. Globally, indeed, being 21 itself meant very different things. In Israel, it’s the year many young people finish mandatory military service. In the United States, it’s the legal drinking age; in South Africa, it’s about the age at which a woman has her first child.

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But the lives of the 21-year-olds we met had many striking similarities. 

In isolation, for instance, the internet was their collective lifeline to the world. In Mexico, an art student isolating in her family home posted a daily piece of art to Instagram to remind herself that time had not stopped altogether. In Germany, the budding labor organizer negotiated contracts and planned strikes via Zoom. But online connections are fragile. In India, an engineering student missed being recruited by a major IT company after her internet cut out as she took a qualifying exam online. 

By the end of 2020, many of the world’s 21-year-olds had lost jobs; others wondered if they’d ever find one. In the U.S., youth unemployment doubled between July 2019 and July 2020, with Gen Z both disproportionately affected by job cuts and disproportionately cynical about their economic future compared with older generations, according to a Pew Research Center report.  The portion of people between 15 and 24 who were unemployed reached 20% in several European nations.

In France, the Monitor followed a 21-year-old entrepreneur who saw his plans to start a talent agency and online shopping portal stalled by lockdowns and economic downturn. In China, our 21-year-old watched as potential internships for her business degree were canceled, rendering her future increasingly uncertain. 

More generally, the faith of the world’s 21-year-olds – in God and government and the goodness of people around them – wobbled, though it did not always break. Many felt torn between the reckless optimism of being young, healthy, and alive and the rigid caution demanded by a deadly virus. A few got sick themselves, and stood by helplessly as others more vulnerable around them did too. 

Each of their stories was also, profoundly, their own. In Afghanistan, a boxer hoping to turn pro contemplated, for the second time in a year, paying a smuggler to help him get to Europe. In the U.S., a young Black woman, feeling caught between childhood and adulthood, watched a video of a police killing of a Black man spark national racial reckoning – a reckoning she could have a say in with her first presidential vote. In India, the engineering student waited out lockdowns folding origami flowers in the two-room flat she shares with her mother, daydreaming about the day she’d graduate and begin helping her mom pay off debt. In Jordan, the Sudanese refugee wandered from hair salon to hair salon, trying to get hired to do a job – making women look glamorous – that the world no longer seemed to need. 

The pandemic opened fault lines, and stressed old ones. In India, Jordan, and South Africa, our 21-year-olds wondered how they’d scrape together enough money for mobile data for online studies. In Mexico, Canada, and Germany, 21-year-olds reflected on loneliness as a privilege – that they were alone because they could isolate, their lives not dependent on doing otherwise.  

We found a generation suspended between the world they’d grown up in and uncertain arrival of their future.

Sowmiya Ashok in Chennai, India; Lenora Chu in Berlin; Colette Davidson in Paris; Whitney Eulich in Mexico City; Dina Kraft in Tel Aviv and Kibbutz Sa’ad, Israel; Sara Miller Llana in Peterborough and Parry Sound, Ontario; Taylor Luck in Amman, Jordan; Ken Makin in Evans, Ga., Hidayatullah Noorzai in Kabul, Afghanistan; Scott Peterson in London; Noah Robertson in Lowell, Massachusetts; and Ann Scott Tyson in Seattle contributed reporting to this article.

A deeper look

On pandemic hold, 21-year-olds around the globe plot hopeful future

Our reporters set out to tell a pandemic story. But more than that, this deep-dive tale is a veritable tour of just how varied a seemingly universal experience can be.

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Nolusindiso “Sindi” Dlambewu (right) and her partner, Bongani Mlambo, hid her pregnancy at first because of fears her family might have about the couple’s ability to support a baby financially. Particularly during the pandemic lockdowns, jobs were hard to find.
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A South African student waits out her pregnancy, studying remotely from a small rented room in pandemic isolation; an Afghan boxer gets deported from Iran in a pandemic sweep, ending his hope of settling in the West; a French entrepreneur sees his business moment stalled by pandemic shutdowns. They are three of twelve 21-year-olds the Monitor closely followed during the last three months of 2020 to offer a glimpse of how a generation is coping, in real time, with a crisis likely to define it for decades to come. 

For young people who lived through the American cholera epidemics of the mid-19th century, for instance, the experience unsettled “basic ideas about huge subjects, like science and the idea of God,” says Sari Altschuler, an associate professor of English at Northeastern University who studies health and American society in the 18th and 19th centuries.

What might be unsettled for today’s 21-year-olds is still unknown, but what’s clear from the Monitor’s 21 in ’21 project is this experience will be formative. “That’s something pandemics do: They fundamentally reorder things at all scales,” says Professor Altschuler. “They completely alter the way people see and understand the world.” 

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SOWETO, South Africa

Just before noon on a slate-gray October morning, Nolusindiso “Sindi” Dlambewu lay on her back on a narrow red hospital cot and listened to the sound of her baby’s heart beating beneath her stomach. It was persistent and steady, and sounded as if it were coming from underwater. Woosh-woosh-woosh

Like everything about this baby, and about this year, it was a little hard to believe this was real – that there was a tiny someone curled up against her spine. “I don’t have any words for it,” she’d say later, her voice dropping low in reverence, when her boyfriend, Bongani Mlambo, asked what it was like to hear that sound. “It’s just amazing.” 

It had been nearly five hours since Sindi arrived at the Soweto clinic that October morning to join the prenatal visit line, which already at 7 a.m. snaked out of the low-slung building and into the nearby street. It was an unseasonably cold austral spring day seven months into South Africa’s coronavirus lockdown, and she pulled her jean jacket tight against her chest. 

Sindi’s phone buzzed. “Everything OK?” Bongani asked. 

“Fine,” she typed back. “Just boring.”

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Nolusindiso "Sindi" Dlambewu (shown in courtyard) shares a room in this complex with a cousin and the cousin's 5-year-old daughter. While taking school courses remotely from her room, Sindi babysits her younger cousin.

As she scanned the line of dozens of women already ahead of her, tugging at their face masks and being nudged apart by security guards each time they leaned in too close, she thought of how differently being 21 had turned out than she’d planned. This was supposed to be the year she finished a short course in records management and started her teaching degree – putting her on the path to be the first person in her family to go to college. She’d planned to get a job, maybe move out of the single room she shared with her cousin and the cousin’s daughter. She and Bongani were taking it slow, deciding what they wanted to be, together and apart. 

Instead, her year had been swallowed by uncertainty, and by waiting. Waiting for the right moment to tell her family about the baby. Waiting for South Africa’s president to announce new pandemic restrictions, or lift old ones. And waiting each month in this same line.

For the last three months of 2020, The Monitor asked twelve 21-year-olds around the world, including Sindi, to show us what it was like to watch the world virtually stop at the very moment their adult lives were meant to begin. 

This is the story of six of them, from six vastly different parts of the world, and the lives they led at the end of 2020. We followed them through military officer training in the Negev Desert and prenatal appointments in Johannesburg, Islamic State attacks in Kabul and middle-of-the-night college classes on Zoom in Beijing, fire-keeping ceremonies in Ontario and meetings at hip coworking spaces in Paris. 

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Nolusindiso "Sindi" Dlambewu, the first in her family to go to college, studies remotely at home, where she worries about power outages while taking online exams.

Together, their stories offer a glimpse of how a generation is coping, in real time, with a crisis likely to define it for decades to come. 

Indeed, like World War II for the so-called Greatest Generation, or 9/11 for millennials, this moment is likely to be crucial in shaping the values, outlook, and prospects of today’s 21-year-olds. 

“We’re seeing that this crisis is disproportionately affecting Gen Z as they’re coming of age,” says Ruth Igielnik, a senior researcher at the Pew Research Center and co-author of a report on the future of Gen Z. 

“When we think about how we define generations,” says Ms. Igielnik, “we think about the kinds of world events that shape their lives – and certainly we will think of this pandemic as shaping Gen Z.”  

For young people who lived through the American cholera epidemics of the mid-19th century, for instance, the experience unsettled “basic ideas about huge subjects, like science and the idea of God,” says Sari Altschuler, an associate professor of English at Northeastern University who studies health and American society in the 18th and 19th centuries.

What might be unsettled for today’s 21-year-olds is still unknown, but what’s clear is this experience will be formative. “That’s something pandemics do: They fundamentally reorder things at all scales,” says Professor Altschuler. “They completely alter the way people see and understand the world.”

For Sindi, life was still on the cusp of changing forever as she lay still and listened again to that tiny heartbeat. Woosh-woosh-woosh. She was seven months pregnant, eight months into a pandemic, and three months from the day she’d meet the baby whose heart was thudding inside her. And all she could do was wait.

October 

PARRY SOUND, Ontario

The same day that Sindi waited in line at the clinic in Soweto, on the other side of the world, Gracie Crafts hoisted up her ribbon skirt with one hand, and placed the other on the edge of a birch-bark canoe floating on Georgian Bay, trying to hold the pressure steady to keep the boat from tilting.

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Gracie Crafts at her mother’s home in Parry Sound, Ontario – 170 miles northeast of Toronto – where she took courses remotely, competing for Wi-Fi with siblings.

Like Sindi, for Gracie 2020 had been all about keeping her balance.

She’d begun the year in motion, attending protests against a pipeline that would traverse traditional Indigenous territory and beginning the second semester of her second year at Trent University in Peterborough, 90 minutes northeast of Toronto, where she studies Indigenous environmental science.

But since the coronavirus began sweeping across Canada in March, her world had shriveled. It began during spring break, when Trent’s campus abruptly shut down. She spent the rest of her semester at home in Parry Sound, competing with her mother and stepfather – both educators – and four younger siblings for a wobbly Wi-Fi connection. 

When Gracie was born, Anishinaabek elders  had given her the name Niizhogiiziskwe, meaning “two suns woman.” For her, the name symbolizes the way she straddles two worlds, because her father was Jewish, her mother Anishinaabe, from the Wasauksing First Nation.

But she’d since found her life resisted categories in other ways, too. She was in high school when she began identifying as bisexual, and later she began to think of herself as two-spirit, a term often used by LGBTQ and nonbinary members of Indigenous communities in North America. For Gracie, an important element of being two-spirit was that it meant she could occupy either men’s or women’s roles in traditional ceremonies like drum-carrying or fire-keeping.  

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Gracie Crafts, a Trent University Indigenous environmental science major, takes the last paddle of the season in October 2020 in a student-built birch-bark canoe on Georgian Bay in Ontario.

And now, life itself seemed to hover in between. Her summer internship, teaching the public about this traditional canoe, a wiigwaas jiimaan, which Gracie and other Anishinaabe youth had built by hand, had turned into a summer of writing boat protocols for the coast guard. Now she was living on campus but taking her classes mostly online. 

She dipped a paddle into the glassy water. The air was brisk, threatening snow. Soon, the entire lake would be frozen over until spring, as the pandemic’s second winter rolled in. There was already talk that next semester might be online-only again.

The rhythm of her paddle strokes was a graceful balancing act.  

KABUL, Afghanistan

For Zabihullah Noori, 2020 had been the year everything was going to change. 

He’d finally saved the money to pay a smuggler for the first leg of a journey to Europe. He needed distance from his conservative family who declared boxing, Zabihullah’s first love, un-Islamic. And he wanted separation from a country that had been at war since he was a toddler.

In late 2019, when the virus was beginning its quiet spread from Wuhan, China, he’d spent 10 days traveling in cramped vehicles across Afghanistan to Iran with a group of other young Afghan men. 

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Zabihullah Noori, warming up at a Kabul gym, says he lives to box. But his religiously conservative family considers the sport to be “un-Islamic.” And he frequently gets kicked out of his parents’ house for pursuing his passion.

In early spring, after spending months in Tehran, they marched 18 hours through the mountains near Iran’s border with Turkey. When Turkish border guards spotted the group, they ran, but it was too late. Two of the men were killed. Zabihullah and the others were sent back to Tehran, where the mysterious virus had already begun to overwhelm hospitals and shut down the city’s public spaces. 

Zabihullah was swiftly deported back to Kabul, and to his old life.

Now, like for many Afghans, the coronavirus pandemic jostled for space in his mind with much more pressing problems. Suicide attacks gripped the city. Within his family, money was tighter than ever. And they still didn’t want him to box. 

That was how he found himself lying on a thin carpet in the guards’ small quarters at the supermarket where he worked part time stacking shelves and running the till. It was the night before one of the most important days of his life – a bout to determine if he would make the Afghan national boxing team. 

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Zabihullah Noori is a top national Afghan boxer. He keeps the medals to prove it taped to his bedroom wall.

He should be home, he knew, preparing by eating roast chicken and watching boxing videos online. And as he lay on the ground, his stomach snarling with hunger, his mind flashed back to earlier in the evening when his father had seen his hair, shaved short to competition specifications, and demanded he get out of the house. 

“It is a shame for me to have a son like you,” he’d yelled.

“That broke my heart,” Zabihullah says. 

All night, he slept fitfully, dreaming he was already fighting in the ring.  

BEIJING

Pulling an overcoat over her pajamas, Lucy Wang slid into a chair behind a small desk in her bedroom in her mother’s apartment in Beijing and clicked on the Zoom link. It was 10:30 on an autumn evening, and on the other side of the world, her math professor at Northeastern University in Boston was just about to start a morning lecture. 

She wished she could be there, watching New England’s brilliant foliage appear and impressing American friends from her program in supply chain management by teaching them about her favorite regional specialties at local Chinese restaurants. Americans always seemed willing to try new things, to take risks. She loved that. And she loved living there.

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Lucy Wang is now back at her mother’s Beijing apartment where she attends her Northeastern University classes online. Now 13 time zones from campus, she is often "in" class in the very early morning hours.

Until COVID-19 hit, and risky American behavior lit the spread of the coronavirus like wildfire, unlike in China where it had been quickly snuffed out by hard lockdowns. In America, many people kept going to malls, eating at restaurants, walking around maskless, too close for Lucy’s comfort. 

Now, as she nibbled the sautéed potatoes and eggs, baby bok choy, and rice her mom left out for her when she had overnight classes, Lucy wondered what would happen next. She’d left Boston in the summer, as coronavirus cases surged, local intensive care units filled to capacity, and President Donald Trump accused Chinese students in the United States of being spies for their government. Between April and September, there was a 99% decline in student visas issued to Chinese students in the U.S. compared with the same period the previous year, and Lucy wondered if she’d ever be able to go back.    

But that was tomorrow’s problem. For now, she had a math class to focus on, followed by a business strategy lecture at midnight. She sipped sweetened milk for a jolt of energy and willed herself to look engaged.  

Life was inside out, and she didn’t know what would happen next. 

November 

KIBBUTZ SA’AD, Israel

Rebecca Baruch was feeling alone. 

In part, it was because of the pandemic. In September, as a second wave of cases crested over Israel, she’d been quarantined for a week after her instructor in Krav Maga, an Israeli military martial art, tested positive for the virus. And she worried often for her parents in the Netherlands, especially her mother, who has multiple sclerosis. 

But in many ways, the pandemic only made her loneliness starker. In fact, she’d been on her own for three years now, since she moved to Israel alone from the Netherlands at the age of 18 to make aliyah – or take Israeli citizenship. That meant that she, like all other young Israelis, would be conscripted into three-year service in the Israel Defense Forces (IDF). 

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Rebecca Baruch (left) is known in the Israel Defense Forces as a "lone soldier" because as a Jewish Dutch immigrant, she came to Israel alone, without family. Rebecca, who leads a female intelligence unit, talks to Hila Porges (right), a member of the kibbutz that "adopted" Rebecca.

That choice had come as a shock to her parents, both secular Jews in The Hague, a lawyer and a lobbyist, for whom Friday night Sabbath dinners were less about religious tradition than they were an excuse about having interesting houseguests. 

But as a teenager, Rebecca had gone to a Zionist summer camp, where she’d seen an inspiring documentary about a Dutch girl who became an Israeli combat soldier. The idea stuck in her head: This was what she wanted to do.

Rebecca’s ancestors include Jews who fled the Spanish Inquisition for safety in the Netherlands 600 years ago. Some of her family were killed by the Nazis; others managed to survive, as she says, “mostly by good luck.”

Her decision to make Israel home was informed by that history. But it still caught her family off guard.  

“I was living the good Dutch life, getting good grades in my high school, so it was a surprise,” she says. Even to her. 

Even now, as she prepared for her graduation from officer training, which brought with it an extra year and four months in the IDF, she still often felt that she was living between two worlds. She was what is called a “lone soldier,” a foreign recruit without Israeli family. When she wasn’t on base, she stayed with a modern Orthodox host family in a kibbutz three hours away. They’d taken her in warmly, making her part of their weekly Sabbath dinners and preparing her favorite fresh salads. On one wall of her room in the kibbutz was an article about all-female field combat units like hers, over which the family had pinned a handwritten sign festooned with hearts: “We are proud of you.”

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Rebecca Baruch calls Kibbutz Sa’ad her home in Israel. In civilian clothes, she passes the kibbutz’s cattle sheds and grain silos.

On the other side of the room were the memories of “civilian Rebecca,” who loved soccer and going to the theater. She’d taped up a small painting of ice skaters on a frozen canal and notes from family and friends in Dutch. 

But life was moving on, leaving that Rebecca behind. 

“You have been on a long path, and taking this path during the time of corona has made it even more challenging,” an IDF general reminded Rebecca and her newly commissioned fellow officers at their graduation on Nov. 3. She stood still and rigid, a beige beret balanced atop her honey-colored braid. “Go in peace, return safely and succeed.” 

In a few weeks’ time, she’d be stationed on a new base deep in the Negev Desert, leading an all-female intelligence commando unit on the Egyptian and Jordanian borders. Though most Israeli combat soldiers are men, these women’s units in field intelligence services and other combat roles are a prominent exception. And Rebecca was proud she would soon be leading one – proud to defend a country that had only just become hers. 

KABUL, Afghanistan

In Zabihullah’s life, things were changing quickly, too. He’d lost the bout the day after his exhausting night in the supermarket. But he’d won another the next day, with a knockout in 18 seconds, and he was invited to join a team sponsored by the Ministry of Higher Education. He’d been scraping together his salary – about $4 a day – to pay his fees for the upcoming semester at a local private university, where he is studying medical technology. He had another big match coming up in late November on the campus of Kabul University.

He was still preparing for that bout in early November when he heard an explosion crack over his family house from the direction of campus. When he climbed onto the roof, he saw smoke billowing from the university’s main gate. Screams began to fill the air. 

Zabihullah knew he should stay inside. But, he says, “I couldn’t control myself.” And he ran outside toward the attack. On the other side of the campus walls, students were begging for help to escape bloody chaos inside that would reportedly claim about 35 lives. So he and a friend found ladders and climbed the stone wall. 

For the next three hours they stayed there, lifting student after student over the barrier as the pop-pop-pop of gunfire rattled across the campus. 

Later, they would find out it was ISIS gunmen. Later, Zabihullah would lie awake wondering what the reason was for the attack, why these men felt the need to kill young and innocent people.

And later, he would realize what it all meant for him.

His boxing match was canceled. 

PARIS

Willem Lombe knew the feeling of watching time seeming to lurch forward, then stop again. By November, France was in its second coronavirus lockdown, after new infections in the country reached a European record of over 40,000 a day in mid-October.

Willem felt restless. He was used to juggling a million things at once and being always in motion – studying and working, starting a new talent agency, the Be Great Company, and rolling out an e-commerce site selling beauty products. But lately he felt like a hamster on a wheel, frantic but stuck.  

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Willem Lombe, the French son of Congolese refugees who came to France before he was born, owns an e-commerce beauty products website and is a partner in the Be Great Company talent agency.

Now he couldn’t go to basketball games to scout new players for the Be Great Company, because there weren’t any. He couldn’t meet with musicians in recording studios, because they were all closed. He was still studying for his degree in commercial management, but the classes had shifted online during lockdown. Even the local clothing store where he worked had temporarily closed, leaving him home – or at a friend’s apartment – watching videos of possible sports recruits or working out the kinks in the back end of his website. He was constantly busy, but it felt at times like nothing was going anywhere.

In some ways, the situation reminded him of the previous year, when he’d finally returned to France, after spending two years crossing the U.S. and Canada trying – unsuccessfully – to get recruited as a pro basketball player. He’d repeated a year of high school hoping to be scouted for either the NBA or a four-year university.   

Then, as now, life had felt wobbly. But he’d always considered himself a dream chaser, someone who only needed an idea to get him going. And his optimism remained unswerving.  

“It is kind of like faith, when you think so much is going to happen even if you don’t see it now,” he says. “With the company, our time is going to come.” 

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French entrepreneur Willem Lombe says the pandemic has stalled all his business efforts. He played video games in November 2020 with friends at the suburban Paris home of his parents.

That’s what he kept telling his business partner Momar, and kept saying to himself.

Anyway, a pandemic was an obstacle, he thought, but no more so than anything he or his family had faced before. When his parents came to France from Congo 40 years earlier, his father worked as a dishwasher in a restaurant while he finished his master’s degree. Now he worked for the state treasury. His mom was a nurse’s assistant. 

“My parents always had jobs. Always,” he says. “That’s the kind of stuff you look up to. ... They came from this rough place and they had the courage to chase their dreams.”  

Willem would too – he felt it. But as the lockdown wore on, it became harder not to hear the silence. On the tree-lined sidewalk outside his friend’s apartment in a Paris suburb a few miles away from home, where he’d gone for a break from trying to work with his parents in the next room, he listened to the world outside. But the street was pin-drop quiet, like time itself had come to a halt. 

SOWETO, South Africa 

Sindi longed for silence like that as she clicked start and the exam for “managing electronic records” appeared on the screen in front of her. Already, her mind felt fuzzy and unfocused in the early summer heat. 

As she tried to read the directions for the test, her mind raced: What if the power went off? 

It had been happening a lot lately. South Africa’s power utility was broke, a situation made worse by the economic crisis now swamping the country because of COVID-19. And her laptop only worked if it was plugged in. She needed this exam to get her diploma, which she needed to start her teaching program. Her back ached. She was eight months pregnant now, and sitting balanced on a stool with no support hurt. 

“Aunty?” The small voice cut through Sindi’s racing thoughts. Her 5-year-old cousin Hlelo was calling her from the bed in their small shared room, where she was sitting with a stack of coloring books. “Aunty, I’m bored.” 

“Baby, I’m writing,” Sindi said, trying to focus on the screen. “Give me a few minutes.”

Since South Africa’s lockdown had started in late March, Sindi had barely left this small room, where she shared a double bed with Hlelo and Hlelo’s mother, who worked at a local supermarket. In the opposite corner, beside a hot plate and a microwave, they’d crammed the small desk where she now sat and worked. 

“I’m hungry,” Hlelo tried again. Sindi sighed, scanning the room for a distraction to keep the child busy. Her eyes landed on her own preferred method of passing time – her smartphone. 

“Come here,” she said, gesturing for Hlelo to follow her outside. “If you sit still here, you can play with this till I’m done.” The girl’s eyes lit up. Sindi handed her the phone and slipped quietly back inside. She just had to finish before anything else got in the way. 

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December

NEGEV DESERT, Israel

In December in the Negev Desert, the coldest hour was the one just before dawn.

That was something Rebecca had learned in her earliest days as an officer, leading her first field trainings. They consisted of two days in the desert under full-moon night skies and pink sunrises, lugging her M16, plus a backpack and gear that weighed 60% of her bodyweight, as she and her all-female team of soldiers raced to take over mountaintops. The exercises were preparation for missions in which units like Rebecca’s would survey for would-be infiltrators along the Egyptian and Jordanian borders. 

“There was a lot of adrenaline,” she says of the trainings. And a lot of walking without much to eat – just some pita bread, a few cans of corn, chickpeas, and tuna. The extreme nature of the task also seemed to sharpen every emotion, including her own sense of isolation.

“In my day-to-day life in officer training, I can’t talk about certain topics with my soldiers and cannot talk with my fellow officers about my soldiers, because some issues are private,” she says. 

Still, she often felt euphoric. The pandemic had made the gulf between her old life and her new more striking, sure, but it had also underscored that she was where she was meant to be.

“I believe in attracting your own good luck,” she says. 

All these years after watching that documentary about the Dutch girl who made aliyah and became an Israeli intelligence commander, Rebecca had done the same. She was the woman she’d dreamed of becoming.

SHANGHAI

When Lucy’s father told her he was coming to visit her in Beijing in December, she felt thankful. 

Since her parents divorced, he’d lived in Chengdu in Sichuan province, more than 1,100 miles from Beijing, and she saw him rarely, especially now that she was studying in the U.S. 

But in many ways, he was who she aspired to be. A slightly rotund, short figure in his black business suit, her dad stood about 5 feet, 6 inches, the same as Lucy. He’d grown up in a poor village in Sichuan during Mao’s 1966-76 Cultural Revolution. But he’d risen far – scoring high in university entrance exams and ultimately attending the prestigious Peking University. 

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Lucy Wang, shown here in a hutong in Beijing in November 2020, idolizes her dad's rags-to-riches business career. She's told him she's not confident about getting into American business schools for graduate work, but is determined to try.

Now that she was trying to get into business herself, she idolized his career. So when he surprised her by offering to take her along to an investment conference in Shanghai, Lucy quickly agreed.

It made her feel grown up, roaming the conference halls with her dad, networking with his business associates. Between sessions, they took long walks and ate leisurely meals, catching up on the strange details of the year.

Lucy told her dad that she was determined to get back to the U.S. and to apply to American business schools. 

“I am not quite confident I can get into those schools,” she confided to him. “I’m still pretty nervous.” 

Still, she told him, she was going to try. 

PETERBOROUGH, Ontario

For Gracie, the term drew to a close in the same place she’d spent much of the semester, inside the campus tepee at Trent, where she was the head fire-keeper. 

Most of campus was still in a coronavirus lockdown. In the dining halls, communal tables had been replaced with single tables. Many students simply ate alone in their rooms. Classes were online, and Gracie struggled to stay present as she stared for hours at her computer screen. 

But in the tepee, Gracie and other Indigenous students had a rare opportunity to be with each other, face to face, with masks off (seated and apart). “I think that’s why it’s changed so much for us – the ability to be outside and away from screens,” she says. 

The role of fire-keeper is traditionally occupied by a man, and Gracie had relished the chance to make a part of her cultural history her own. 

Building fires, she knew, was an exercise in nurture. At the center of the fire were paper-thin ribbons of cedar that caught the spark but couldn’t hold it. Around them, she placed twigs and then bigger branches. Under campus COVID-19 protocols, up to seven people could be in the tepee during a fire ceremony, more than were allowed to gather almost anywhere else in Gracie’s life. 

And the tepee seemed to need them too. When she’d come back to campus in the fall after a semester in lockdown, and then summer vacation, it had sprung a series of small cracks and tears. Many Indigenous students living on reserves had gone home and stayed there, afraid of bringing the coronavirus to their remote communities if they traveled back and forth to campus. Like anything, she realized, the tepee needed to be tended to, and when it wasn’t, the canvas began to warp at the edges. 

“That’s a space that needs to be used,” she says. And it was a big part of the reason she’d decided she was coming back to campus in January, even though classes would be all online.

She had a life to tend to, and she needed to be here to do it. 

2021

SOWETO, South Africa 

The final days of Sindi’s pregnancy ticked by listlessly in the dry summer heat. She and Bongani bickered about their baby’s name. He wanted Nkazimulo, which meant “brightness.” She liked Zazi, “to know yourself.” Meanwhile, her due date – Jan. 4 – came and went. 

“She doesn’t want to come into the world when things are like this,” Sindi joked, but she was growing impatient. The hospital where she was due to give birth promised to induce labor if she was overdue. But now, with a second wave of coronavirus cases sweeping South Africa, they were too short-staffed to do it.   

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Tiny newborn Nkazimulo is welcomed by her parents, Bongani Mlambo (left) and Nolusindiso "Sindi" Dlambewu. “This year is going to be different,” Sindi said of the couple's baby.

In its first year, the coronavirus pandemic had exposed many of the world’s fault lines, and as it entered its second, the consequences were becoming clear. In Israel, Canada, China, and France, mass vaccination campaigns had already begun, with hopes that most of the population would be immune to the disease by mid-year, and life might slowly return to normal. But in South Africa and Afghanistan, health authorities were scrambling alongside other developing countries for access to whatever doses were left. 

The first doses of the vaccine had not yet arrived in Soweto when Sindi went into labor late on Jan. 14. She was alone – fathers weren’t allowed in the hospital now – and wore a mask, which kept slipping off her face when she cried out. Each time, the midwife pushed it gently back into place. 

At 2:30 a.m., Jan. 16, Sindi pushed a final time and then there she was. Her daughter Nkazimulo, wailing and clawing at the air. And when Sindi saw her, she at last felt sure. 

“This year is going to be different,” she said. “It’s already different.”

Colette Davidson reported from Paris; Dina Kraft from Tel Aviv and Kibbutz Sa’ad, Israel; Sara Miller Llana from Peterborough and Parry Sound, Ontario; Hidayatullah Noorzai from Kabul, Afghanistan; Scott Peterson from London; and Ann Scott Tyson from Seattle.

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In their own words: Intimate introspection from our 21-year-olds

One of the privileges of being a journalist is getting to tell someone else’s story. In this collection of essays, our reporters took a step back and let their subjects speak for themselves.

Monitor correspondents developed close relationships with the twelve 21-year-olds during a three-month period in our global report on how the pandemic is affecting them. Each 21-year-old focused on a pandemic experience to relate, in their own words, to the Monitor. You can click on them here, or on our interactive world map

In Jordan, longing to fix life: Refugee and beautician Nuha Suleiman Ahmed on failure to launch 

In Canada, no funeral possible: Gracie Crafts on pandemic mental health and the suicide of a friend

In Mexico, creativity and guilt: Artist Jimena Pérez Sánchez on having COVID-19

In India, no Tamil movie ending yet: Lockdowns dim engineering student Bhuvi Velu's career dreams

In Afghanistan, pandemic deportation: Zabihullah Noori on his foiled effort to escape the conservatism of family and Islam  

In China, Cotton the cat: Student Lucy Wang on the Boston-to-Beijing odyssey with her rescue

In Israel, hovering like a drone: New Israel Defense Forces officer Rebecca Baruch on pandemic limbo

In Massachusetts, an honest cry: New American Jaafar Al Ogaili on illness and friendship

In Georgia, youth and responsibility: Olivia Holt, a Savannah State University student, on partying, voting, and race

In Germany, chanting through masks: Cosima Steltner on German labor activism with youth

In France, pandemic buzzkill: French entrepreneur Willem Lombe hits a wall

In South Africa, the big wait: Sindi Dlambewu on pregnancy and remote study in Soweto

 

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Welcome to the climate-solution age

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For more than 30 years, the conversation on climate change has been trapped between opposing fears. On one side, scientists warned of dangers from a warming atmosphere caused by human activity. On the other, consumers, politicians, and business leaders have feared disruption to an economy long reliant on fossil fuels. From one climate summit to another, leaders set targets that have largely not been met. Mutual fears created stalemate.

This week that standoff may have finally been broken. President Joe Biden signed a raft of executive orders on Jan. 27 to aggressively place the huge U.S. economy on a foundation of renewable energy sources. His actions are well timed. Advances in technology and a widening consensus have shifted the focus from restraining the harm of climate change to realizing the good that can be done in slowing it.

“When we talk to our future grandchildren, we will be able to refer to this decade as the one in which the switch flipped and the planet adopted a tremendously promising green future,” observed former tech executives Vivek Wadhwa and Alex Salkever in Foreign Policy.
On climate change, the inertia of fear is giving way to the resolve of hope.

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For more than 30 years, the global conversation on climate change has been trapped between opposing fears. On one side, scientists warned of dangers from a warming atmosphere and rising seas caused by human activity. On the other, consumers, politicians, and business leaders have feared disruption to an economy long reliant on fossil fuels. From one climate summit to another, leaders set targets that have largely not been met. Mutual fears created stalemate.

This week that standoff may have finally been broken. President Joe Biden signed a raft of executive orders on Jan. 27 to aggressively place the huge U.S. economy on a foundation of renewable energy sources. His actions are well timed. Advances in technology and a widening consensus have shifted the focus from restraining the harm of climate change to realizing the good that can be done in slowing it.

“We see nothing but opportunity,” said Heather Zichal, chief executive officer of the American Clean Power Association.

While legislative battles await, Mr. Biden enjoys a once unthinkable range of support among investment bankers, energy producers, environmental groups, social activists, and especially young people. The oil industry, for example, appears to welcome a carbon tax that would drive more investments to clean energy. General Motors announced that it would end production of gas-powered vehicles by 2035.

How did all this happen? Two insights come from scholars who have studied how public thought shifts toward unity and opportunity through the diffusion of ideas.

The first is that modern digital communications, such as smartphones, have spread the discussion of climate change as well as the evidence of it. The best perspectives and solutions have found a wider audience quicker than might have happened a couple of decades ago. In addition, other causes were added to the mix, broadening the consensus. Largely through the expanded public space of social media, the conversation about climate change has become a conversation about climate justice, public health, and economic and racial inequality. President Biden’s executive orders call for significant new investment in predominately minority communities abutting high-pollution industrial areas.

The second insight is that the rapid pace of energy-related inventions has caught the public imagination. This is best represented by the commercial ascent of Tesla vehicles. More than any other company, Tesla has demonstrated the vast potential of shifting economies to renewable technologies. Despite the pandemic, its stock rose 695% in 2020. In recognition of the new electric vehicle supply chain and job market, Mr. Biden has called for the installation of 500,000 charging stations nationwide by 2030.

“When we talk to our future grandchildren, we will be able to refer to this decade as the one in which the switch flipped and the planet adopted a tremendously promising green future,” observed former tech executives Vivek Wadhwa and Alex Salkever in an essay last week in Foreign Policy.

On climate change, the inertia of fear is giving way to the resolve of hope. 

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When I felt depressed during lockdown

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When there seemed to be no end in sight to her city’s stay-at-home orders, a young woman’s mental health took a turn for the worse. But the realization that joy is our God-given birthright brought hope and the strength to overcome difficulties.

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When stay-at-home orders in our city first began, and there seemed to be no end in sight, my mental health took a turn for the worse. Unable to see friends and family, I became more and more unhappy and felt increasingly worried about the pandemic.

All the things that used to make me happy were now out of reach. Even something as simple as a trip to the grocery store was difficult. I spent most of my days indoors, hardly going out to exercise or even to feel the sun.

Family members encouraged me to try getting out of the house and to find new activities to keep me busy and in good spirits. But I felt unmotivated to do anything but the required schoolwork, and spent most of my day sleeping.

It wasn’t until my mom sat me down to talk about what was going on that I realized how I was letting these circumstances control me and my mental well-being. But still, I did feel unhappy, and I complained to her that nothing would change until I could once again do the things that brought me joy.

She was quiet for a moment before asking me, “Where does everything good come from?”

Having attended a Christian Science Sunday School since I was little, it was easy for me to reply, “God.” I’d learned that God is good and the only creator, so the source of everything good must be God.

Then she asked, “So then, where does our happiness come from?”

I could see that this answer was the same: from God.

With this in mind, she reasoned that if our happiness truly comes from God, how could my joy be taken away by the current circumstances? Since God is permanent, my happiness has to be, too. Since God is always present, happiness must always be present.

She also explained that relying on anything other than God to bring me happiness could never result in lasting joy, since – as I’d already experienced during lockdown – none of these other “sources” of happiness are permanent or secure. My mom encouraged me to spend some time praying with these ideas and to read some Christian Science articles on this topic.

The very first article I read started off with this statement from “Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures”: “Happiness is spiritual, born of Truth and Love” (Mary Baker Eddy, p. 57). Reading this helped me reason this way: If happiness truly is spiritual, then it can’t be influenced by circumstances or anything else. Being joyful is our birthright. God never stops supplying us with everything we need and never takes good away from us. So if God hadn’t stopped supplying me with joy, how could I be feeling unhappy? I noticed that almost immediately after I finished reading the article and praying with the ideas I’d read, all the fearful and depressing thoughts were gone.

It was an instantaneous healing! But I continued to pray with these ideas and shared them with friends and family who were struggling with some of the same feelings I’d had. I even brought my newfound insights to a Zoom call, reminding everyone on the call of their true source of joy, God.

I am so grateful for this healing and the freedom it has given me – enabling me to remain joyful no matter what. In the months since this realization, I’ve faced more challenges, each of which seemed like another threat to my joy. But I was able to overcome these obstacles as well by knowing that my happiness is spiritual and remains untouched. I will forever be grateful for this wonderful healing.

Originally published in the Christian Science Sentinel’s online TeenConnect section, Jan. 26, 2021.

Some more great ideas! To read or listen to an article in the weekly Christian Science Sentinel on overcoming unhelpful biases titled “Watch your thinking, find progress and healing,” please click through to www.JSH-Online.com. There is no paywall for this content.

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Staying afloat

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Gracie Crafts, a Trent University Indigenous environmental science major in Canada, is one of twelve 21-year-olds featured in the Monitor's global report, "21-in-’21: Coming of age in a pandemic." Here, on a chilly October day, she cuts through the waters of Georgian Bay in a student-built birch-bark canoe on her last paddle of a difficult year. A friend died by suicide during the loneliest days of the year, and in the Monitor project, she writes about how her Indigenous beliefs helped her deal with the tragedy.

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Thanks for joining us today. You can explore this full project, with its interactive components, here. We’ll be back on Monday with a story addressing a thorny ethical question: Is it ever appropriate to take away health care as a punishment?

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