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Monitor Daily Podcast

November 27, 2017
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Mark Sappenfield
Senior global correspondent

We are spending more time with our kids, apparently. That news comes from a survey of 11 Western countries, and the difference is big. The amount of time we spend caring for our children is more than double what it was in 1965, reports The Economist.

Hooray! Right?

Melissa Milkie would disagree. The scientist is one of many who have come to the conclusion that the amount of time we spend caring for our kids is no predictor of anything. “I could literally show you 20 charts, and 19 of them would show no relationship between the amount of parents’ time and children’s outcomes.... Nada. Zippo,” she told The Washington Post in 2015.

So what kinds of interactions do matter? Reading. Family meals. One-on-one conversations. In other words, quality is what counts, not quantity.

Trends evolve, with society arguing over helicopter parenting and mommy wars, but one thing is clear from the research: Genuine warmth and sensitivity aren’t dependent on a clock for validation or effectiveness.

Now, here are our five stories of the day, which look at how standards of fairness, humanity, and decency are being debated and reshaped around the world. 


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Today’s stories

And why we wrote them

Tax reform often ultimately comes down to questions of what is fair and for whom. How Republicans answer those questions could be essential to their bill getting passed. 

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Relatives of wounded worshipers gather outside the Suez Canal University hospital in Ismailia, Egypt, Nov. 25, a day after an attack on a mosque that was the deadliest attack ever by Islamic extremists in Egypt.

Evil can overplay its hand. The ISIS attack in Egypt last weekend was so horrific that it has stripped away the support of groups that otherwise might have been inclined to make excuses for it.  

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Protesters shout slogans during a demonstration for the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women in Paris Nov. 15.

The French have often mocked more "puritanical" views of sexuality. But the Weinstein scandal has awakened a powerful call to set clearer lines around acceptable behavior. 

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Maria Meza Paniagua tapes a portrait of a person who was disappeared to the back of a chair, at a ceremony marking the National Day of the Disappeared, in Guatemala City on June 21, 2017. According to human rights groups, more than 40,000 people were "disappeared" during Guatemala's 36 years of internal conflict.

How could a Guatemalan war criminal be living in plain sight in Rhode Island? His arrest could tell a tale of justice long delayed. 

When the Hallmark Channel has more viewers than MSNBC, something is afoot. 


The Monitor's View

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Actor and composer of Puerto Rican descent Lin Manuel Miranda distributes food to victims of Hurricane Maria in La Placita de Güisin, in Vega Alta, Puerto Rico, Nov. 7.

End-of-year holidays such as Christmas have long been marked as a time for generous giving. The kick-off event has lately become “Giving Tuesday,” an initiative started in 2012 to counter the commercialism of Cyber Monday and Black Friday. And during this “giving season,” at least one act of charity usually stands out. This year’s winner may be Haiti.

Despite being devastated by a 2010 earthquake, the poorest nation in the Western Hemisphere made a big donation last week. It promised to give $250,000 to other Caribbean islands hit by hurricanes Irma and Maria.

The amount may seem small, especially given the billions needed to restore those islands, including Puerto Rico. And many wealthier countries are promising millions in grants and loans. The amounts were pledged last week at a special donors conference sponsored by the Caribbean Community, an organization of 15 nations and dependencies.

But as a percentage of Haiti’s wealth, the donation is almost sacrificial. And it ranks up there with the biblical tale of the poor widow who gave away a high proportion of her income.

Compassion is often easier for those humbled by the loss of material well-being, whether it comes by poverty or disaster. Such givers may be better able to recognize others in need and be more willing to come out of themselves to help. Their special kind of empathy can be as healing as the gift itself.

In the United States, individuals give more to charity than do philanthropies and private companies. While wealthier individuals give more money in absolute terms, often it is the poor, or those making less than $45,000, who give the most as a proportion of income. And these so-called sacrificial donors are most often found in the poorest regions, such as the South, and give 12 percent of their income.

A good example of this phenomenon comes from Puerto Rico, one of the poorest parts of the US. A survey of the territory’s residents in 2014 found a very high propensity for giving. Three out of 4 households on the island reported making charitable donations. In the rest of the US, just over half of households give to charity.

Haiti’s pledge to its neighbors has yet to receive much acknowledgment. Yet it didn’t expect much. Its own experiences have left a humility that seeks to give without receiving credit.


A Christian Science Perspective

About this feature

Each weekday, the Monitor includes one clearly labeled religious article offering spiritual insight on contemporary issues, including the news. The publication – in its various forms – is produced for anyone who cares about the progress of the human endeavor around the world and seeks news reported with compassion, intelligence, and an essentially constructive lens. For many, that caring has religious roots. For many, it does not. The Monitor has always embraced both audiences. The Monitor is owned by a church – The First Church of Christ, Scientist, in Boston – whose founder was concerned with both the state of the world and the quality of available news.

Throughout his young adult years, Christopher McKenzie suffered from chronic debilitating migraines, and the medicine prescribed for him didn’t really help. Yet he simply couldn’t believe that it was God’s will for anyone to suffer. Searching the internet for a permanent cure, he began studying the teachings of Christian Science. He found an answer to a question he’d had since a teenager: “Where did evil come from?” The realization that evil, such as sickness, is not truly part of us because God, who is good, could never create evil completely freed Christopher from the migraines. And he’s since had other healings that have clarified for him Christ Jesus’ promise, “And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free” (John 8:32).


A message of love

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Balinese farmers in Amed, Karangasem Regency, tend their crops Nov. 27 as Mt. Agung erupts in the background. Some 100,000 people were evacuated from the immediate area, and the airport was closed.
( The illustrations in today’s Monitor Daily are by Jacob Turcotte. )

A look ahead

Thank you for reading today. Please come back tomorrow when we talk to women at different stages of their political careers. They explore how their experiences – and the current climate – could help change the calculus of sexual harassment in politics.

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