Valentine's Day: 10 literary lessons in love

From 'Much Ado About Loving' by Jack Murnighan and Maura Kelly, 10 lessons in love from literary classics.

10. Revolutionary Road

In Richard Yates' novel Revolutionary Road, married couple Frank and April seem, on the surface, to have a happy life in a 1950s suburb, but actually they are discontent. Frank, who is not fond of his children, gradually falls out of love with April. Frank also hates his job and thinks he's meant for a higher purpose – higher than that of their neighbors or his co-workers whom he regards with disdain. Murnighan and Kelly say to beware people like Frank who say they're dissatisfied with life but won't do anything about it. Often it's because they're afraid of facing up to their own mediocrity. If they can't be truthful with themselves about their own lives, they may have trouble with truth in other areas as well.

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Dear Reader,

About a year ago, I happened upon this statement about the Monitor in the Harvard Business Review – under the charming heading of “do things that don’t interest you”:

“Many things that end up” being meaningful, writes social scientist Joseph Grenny, “have come from conference workshops, articles, or online videos that began as a chore and ended with an insight. My work in Kenya, for example, was heavily influenced by a Christian Science Monitor article I had forced myself to read 10 years earlier. Sometimes, we call things ‘boring’ simply because they lie outside the box we are currently in.”

If you were to come up with a punchline to a joke about the Monitor, that would probably be it. We’re seen as being global, fair, insightful, and perhaps a bit too earnest. We’re the bran muffin of journalism.

But you know what? We change lives. And I’m going to argue that we change lives precisely because we force open that too-small box that most human beings think they live in.

The Monitor is a peculiar little publication that’s hard for the world to figure out. We’re run by a church, but we’re not only for church members and we’re not about converting people. We’re known as being fair even as the world becomes as polarized as at any time since the newspaper’s founding in 1908.

We have a mission beyond circulation, we want to bridge divides. We’re about kicking down the door of thought everywhere and saying, “You are bigger and more capable than you realize. And we can prove it.”

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